Is she jealous of me?

she couuuullllldddd be jealous...but in my opinion she's selfish and doesn't really care about you very much. Sorry to be so blunt about it, but from what i'm hearing she just isnt a good friend. I'm a lot younger, but i have similar problems with people i know who always talk about themselves, but i feel like i would sound self centered if i told her about it. she may be jealous of your twins, or just the fact that you had children. maybe she was on the losing side of an argument about whether to have kids. either way, if she was a good friend she would have stuck it out for your sake.